What stopped me from achieving – Limiting beliefs!
“My success isn’t a result of arrogance – it’s a result of belief.” – Conor McGregor
How many times have you seen, heard or even known something amazing that someone accomplished, on television, at work or even among your friends and family?
May be it was a friend who learnt to sky dive, a family member who became a movie star, an ex-colleague who is now a multi-millionaire or neighbour who left home to go traveling.
And as you learnt about their accomplishments, you said to yourself,
“Wow! I want to do that too!”
Days pass, then weeks and months and most of the times we end up just getting back to our everyday lives forgetting what we even wanted to do back then.
Sometimes you might even find yourself becoming resentful at others people’s success or even disappointed in yourself for not having taken the leap of faith and followed through on what you wanted to accomplish.
One of the reasons an achievement can seem like a distant dream, is because of a belief that is causing a limitation. These are negative thoughts, for example “It’s too hard”, known as limiting beliefs.
Limiting beliefs are not necessarily a product of our own experiences, sometimes they may just be someone else’s view point or even conditioning by our families and society in general that cause us to form these beliefs about ourselves.
While these may seem really innocent, they may have a very deep impact on the way we live our lives or even succeed, in our personal or even professional lives.
These beliefs determine the career path we may choose, the amount of money in our bank accounts, the state of our health and relationships.
They can make the difference between achieving what you want than not achieving what you want.
These beliefs determine our decisions, actions and the quality of our lives.
What I found most shocking though, how you can go through your whole life and not achieve what you want just because of the belief.
The saddest part was, I was not even aware these limiting beliefs existing in my psyche.
It was only when I attended 3 days EFT Training that I uncovered beliefs that had been limiting my finances, career ambitions, health and well-being.
When the beliefs became unveiled through a very elegant process during the training (which was intense and liberating), it made so much sense what had been stopping me from achieving.
Some of my limiting beliefs uncovered during EFT Training were:
- I’m not good enough
- I don’t deserve success
- Money does not come to me easily
- I really have to work hard to meet my daily needs
- I’m not qualified enough to take that position at work.
- I’m not smart enough to get through that exam or interview.
- Nobody loves me.
- and one of the most harmful – I can’t …
I not only got to know where these beliefs came from, how they were affecting me and how dangerous they were to my overall life, but got to know the exact procedure on how I could eliminate them, thereby releasing myself from my stuck patterns.
Here are the steps to clear limiting beliefs and unleashing success:
- Uncover the limiting belief.
- Use EFT to get to the root cause.
- Eradicate the limitation from the psyche.
- Program a new empowered belief aligned to what you want.
While I was aware of the steps, what really made a difference was when I attended the 3 day EFT training, the certified trainer guided me as to how to release the hidden limitations and program the new belief for guaranteed success.
In closing, the limiting beliefs process helped me to uncover what was stopping me from achieving and automatically activate what I wanted to accomplish.
Suppose you could also, like me, learn the process that enabled me to increase my wealth and health?
Love Donita & Team Vitality
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