From Simply Existing To Thriving Business Owner And Husband
How many times have you missed out on opportunities in life because you were too afraid to pursue them? Have you sacrificed your dreams for safety and security? Like many of us, Uday Singh was “playing it small” and simply existing in life.
It was only after attending a series of seminars that Uday’s self esteem sky-rocketed, he received greater financial abundance, and was able to rescue his failing marriage. He also found the courage and strength to leave his already-fulfilling job and become a full time speaker, trainer and coach. Uday used the same tools he learned in the seminars with Dr Rangana Rupavi Choudhuri (PhD) to break through his personal barriers and start his own training business, Khushi Life Learning, helping others to achieve their highest potential.
Uday grew up near Jaipur in the Alwar district of Rajasthan and started his career in 2007. It was his drive and passion to be of service to others which lead him to work with an NGO, a call center, and later in the hospitality industry. Having grown up with low-self esteem, Uday’s lack of confidence became intensely magnified when he was promoted as an HR Manager at work. “I felt very inferior at work, noticing that others possessed self-assurance that I could never seem to achieve for myself. In fact, I felt I was truly stupid inside,” he recalls. On top of his poor self-image, Uday’s marriage was struggling. He knew that he needed to take drastic action to turn his life around, but didn’t know what to do.
Life seemed to have hit an all-time low in 2010 when Uday was recovering from a stomach infection surgery. Shortly after he recovered, the CEO of Uday’s firm sent him for a training program which was where Uday had a profound “a-ha!” moment. “I realized that I had the potential to become a motivational speaker and trainer. When I returned from the seminar, I shared my experiences with the CEO and he encouraged me to attend more seminar trainings.” Uday researched online and discovered the Breakthrough Coaching with NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) course through Vitality Living College. “I called the office and spoke to Dr Rangana Rupavi Choudhuri (PhD) for almost half an hour! My conversation with her opened my mind completely. Her words were so inspiring, that I knew I had to attend all her seminars and started by attending Breakthrough Coaching with NLP.
“That seminar completely changed my life. In particular, it helped me release my past negative thought patterns and positively shift my thinking about my life and health. My beliefs transformed at such a rapid pace that my confidence started to soar and on the third night of the seminar, I dreamt my life had drastically changed and moved away from my current scenario. I seemed very healthy and happy and surrounded by many people who appreciated me, and awoke in the morning feeling deeply relaxed. I wrote down some affirmations about my new life and used to read them at night out loud. When I finally returned to office I noticed, there was a remarkable difference in my communication with others. I received many unexpected compliments from my colleagues and felt I had truly transformed from the inside out.
“Another favourite exercise during the training helped me to connect with my higher self and transformed my relationship life. It gave me a crystal clear revelation about my wife’s mindset and I realized that I needed to connect with her to truly understand her. When I did this, her anger outbursts vanished; we fell in love with each other again!”
After completing his Breakthrough Coaching with NLP training, Uday had another moment of clarity. “I also became aware that I never appreciated myself for all my hard work that I’d put into my career. My true passion of teaching, speaking, and training others only emerged after I attended the workshop, and I understood it was time to begin. I had finally found my purpose.”
Uday then went on the attend EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), The Journey, and Matrix Reimprinting. During a live demonstration in the EFT training session, Uday was able to heal from the guilt of losing his unborn child, which was the root cause of the initial disconnection between him and his wife. A month later during The Journey seminar, Uday learned to completely and fully accept himself at the core of his being. The final catalyst in Uday’s transformation was attending Matrix Reimprinting, where he shifted his belief systems about money. “I was working with a partner to release an old pattern, where on completing the exercise I took a decision to start my own business, Khushi Learning. “I realised that I was not meant to simply exist, but to exist with the soul purpose of enlightening others to find happiness through my experiences and support.”
A year after the last seminar with Vitality Living College, Uday opened Khushi Life Learning. “I chose the name Khushi Life Learning for my organization, as khushi means happiness in Hindi. I decided that I wanted to spread happiness and inspire others to achieve their true potential by clearing traumas and erasing negative beliefs, which I do so with my training and counselling workshops.”
“Breakthrough Coaching with NLP helped me to overcome my issues and empowered me to take control of my destiny and live the life of my dreams. I gained the courage and self-assurance to speak in front of anyone, and in fact, to thousands in an audience. In addition, I developed the inner confidence to make friends, implement new strategies at work, and reconnect with my wife. Professionally, I’ve achieved so much that I feel secure with my plans for the next 5 years. Dr Rangana Rupavi Choudhuri (PhD) is an amazing trainer, coach, and a divine soul. Her support and guidance helped me to connect with my true self.”
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About the trainer: Dr Rangana Rupavi Choudhuri (PhD) is a dynamic international speaker and trainer. She loves being able to share alternate therapy and coaching skills that enable real and rapid transformations. With a PhD in Cancer Research and her background in running a multi-billion dollar international business, she is currently the Founder of Vitality Living College.
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- Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT Level 1 & 2) Practitioner Training– Finding peace through stress relief
- The Journey Seminars – Deeply healing process to forgive and be at peace with self
- Breakthrough Coaching with NLP – Resolving conflicts that prevent acceptance and a sense of wholeness and peace
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