How to live the life of your dreams? 7steps you can follow and the 8th one

How to live the life of your dreams? 7steps you can follow and the 8th one

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.” Harriet Tubman


“So what are you going to be when you grow up?”.

Yes it all starts right there when you are little children.The dreams, the aspirations and all those candles blown out on the birthday cake, to have a special life, very different from anyone else, and very special.


Over the years, other’s view points, expectations and competition take over and we often end up doing the things, or being in the position that we hate anyways, the dreams and goals in life all lost.


Just imagine, if all the achievers in the world thought or behaved like that, and let their limiting beliefs and mindless chatter come in the way, we would never have any of them. What makes them so special and so different?


How do they get to live the lives they want with ease and without struggle?

The answer is really simple and staring at us right in the face: Most of the times, our own limiting belief systems, either that which we created, or someone else’s view point interferes with our growth. It could over the years turn into a habit or a pattern that, gives us secondary gain and keeps us from achieving our dreams.

Here are a few steps that I learnt at Breakthrough Coaching and NLP that helped me break those patterns and it can also enable you to achieve yours as well:

Know what your dream really is – This is the most difficult and the first step, to really know what we want and where we want to be.

Identify what is holding you back – This one could be a little tricky and sometimes its our own limitations, fears and beliefs that can hold us back. Once these are identified and tracked back to their root cause, they can be eliminated easily.

Make a strategy for what you want and begin – Once the first and second steps are done, the rest is pretty much a cake walk. Making effective strategies really helps in putting those goals or dreams in action. It’s time now to move ahead

Begin with the first step first – Now that you have a strategy in place its time to set short term goals with a time limit so that the specific goal can be met, and begin with the first step first.

Set a routine – Most of the achievers in this world have a set of a fixed routine. They have a planner and know exactly what they need to do the next day.

Believe in yourself – Unless you really believe in yourself, or the power of your dreams , you’re never really going to achieve them, are you.

Give yourself an incentive – Incentives are really important when it comes to goals. They help build confidence and also provide the necessary push needed to achieve the goal. And it makes goal achievement all the more fun.

And the most important step that made a huge difference to me personally:

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